Patience grasshopper. I've been at it 10 years now. One of the things that help us was to set up a budget and give ourselves an allowance. We each get $X per month to do as we please. If he or I want something to get, we save for it from out personal allowance. This way, I don't get surprised with $800 digital SLR camera out of the blue. And I don't need to explain yet another $1,000 LV bag.
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Date: 2009-03-31 01:46 pm (UTC)